Monday

Since today is the holiday for Martin Luther King Jr., Petunia has today off of school.

Still haven't taken down the Yule Tree. *sigh*

Saturday, we went to the library and then grocery shopping. Sunday, Petunia and I watched the first part of the second season of Doctor Who. Sharky went to Mr. DW's boat, not to sail - the winds were too high - but to just assist. Mr. DW took his sister there to check out the boat and discovered they were both unable to get out of the boat due to the high winds and super choppy water.

Read on FB that JBuns is pregnant with her boyfriend of almost a year. She's ecstatic. I told her I was happy for her. I was actually kind of sad because that means there is no chance of her and Bear ever getting back together (not like I'd say anything of the sort to either of them, just my silly little fantasy).

Spoke to Bear on Friday night to make sure he knew about her pregnancy and to ask him to not be mean. He promised he wouldn't. He and his married friend DS (and the wife & kids and the wife's parents) all went to Pearl Harbor. They all had a really great time and I was so happy he was doing the tourist thing.

Bear called again on Sunday night. He had received word from his girlfriend, LS, that she was 4 or 5 weeks pregnant. They don't want to marry and she doesn't believe in abortion or adoption for her. I made him promise that if she does bring up adoption, that he is to tell her that we will take the child. I also made him promise not to give up any rights to the child at all. She's going to the doctor tomorrow (Tuesday) so maybe it's a false positive and the whole situation is moot. He said he'd let us know as soon as he knows. As I said goodbye on the phone, I started to cry. He said it wasn't a big deal and knows I love him. Its hard to explain the tears - I'm sad that if there is a baby that it isn't coming into the world in a better situation and I'm terrified of not being part of its life.